Wednesday, November 11


Hello Ally,


I thought you might like to add this photo of another of your special creations. Little Erin is delighted with the outfit you made her. She had her first swim today but I am not allowed to share that photo yet!!
Hope you have more happy sewing days ahead. I am sure Dante will enjoy learning how to occupy himself while Mama is on the sewing machine.
LOL
Grandma Gem

Tuesday, November 10

Whats growing in my backyard.


Our "fig twig" has done really well this year - doubled in size and the leaves are looking wonderfully healthy. It is behind a barrier (normally our fagoli patch) to protect it from toddler trampings.


Our first strawberry is contemplating it's own photosynthesis. I played with the colours only because the real colours haven't developed yet but I am very excited when the time will come that we can pick our own and enjoy!


I have now entered that "zone" where my world has pretty much shut down around me except for preparations for the impending birth.

I don't remember it happening this early with Dante, but I do remember those last few weeks at work where there was zero concentration on anything unconnected with babies, labour and motherhood.

We have been busily preparing the house for the new arrival, spring cleaning every cupboard in sight, I even managed to convince my sister to come down from Brisbane and show me how to clean my bathroom so it was as nice and clean as hers! Thanks Clairie!

There is still so much to do, I had a little scare that made us think we might be welcoming a November baby rather than a December baby and that has on the one hand made me more determined to have everything ready as early as possible, but also to stop doing so much (doctors orders). While I haven't really been exerting myself, I certainly can notice now when I try to accomplish something it is taking me much longer and requires much more concentration than normal!

Dante has been a champion through all this. He is often neglected, left to play on his own while I bustle about with loads of washing, emptying cupboards and then the mandatory re-coup on the couch afterward! I also can't bend over to quickly pick up his toys or join him in a quick game of "rockets" or such, and while he will often express some resentment he is generally good natured about it all. Thank god he still has his refuge at the child care centre to go and run amok with his mates!

My care factor for many other things that I would normally consider important is waning also, and I really need to up my discipline to make sure I keep connected with my friends, and my study - these are the two that I have seriously let slip. I have a uni exam in two weeks so I have already highlighted my study times in which I will force myself to revise. I received two HD's for this course already, I would hate to let it all slip now at the end.

The one thing that has certainly made all this easier is the onset of spring. Our backyard has turned from wasteland to wasteland with some pretty flowers. No seriously, for the first time in several years we have green, green grass. It has been annouced that we will be allowed to water the lawn on weekends right over christmas, and that combined, with our washing machine connected to a grey water hose we hope to keep it green long into the new year. The roses look the best they have ever done, but I don't need to tell you - see for yourself:



This is a "fresia rose" and smells divine. It was mum and dad's when they lived in canberra, I never managed to make it look as good as they did, but I think I am pretty close this year!




This dark mahogany rose was in our garden when we brought the house - we don't do anything to it besides a little clip here and there and every year it never fails to bloom and look lovely.


I never thought I would be this excited about green lawn. Go the grass!


Last summer we moved our citrus around and in the process lost our lemon tree, and made our orange and kaffir lime very unwell. Luckily the kaffir lime has sprouted some buds giving us some hope that we will be able to enjoy some homemade fishcakes and laksas!


These are my babies - my grapes. Apparently they taste awful but I love the look of them and grapes in a wine barrel is just a combination made in heaven. There is parsley in the bottom. Dante knows what parsley and orgegano is and can now go and pick them for me when I am cooking (although he tends to be a stingy when I request a handful I am lucky to get a leaf or two!)



Tuesday, October 27

Countdown to party time

Well Casa Paolino is totally getting geared up for the silly season. It starts this week and doesn't end for the next 18 or so years. My sister is arriving at the end of this week for a flash in the pan weekend visit. I cannot wait. I love catching up with family and I seem to be at the best stage of my pregnancy to date so should be able to enjoy all the lunching, munching and shopping we are planning to do (well, shopping as in "window shopping" right Clairie?).

Next week I have booked in my yearly pilgrimage to IKEA. At the moment we are looking at heading up on Tuesday. It's a public holiday here in Canberra for Melbourne Cup (if you can explain that to me, that would be great!) and it's not in NSW so we are hoping it will be relatively quiet.

My Law exam is then on the horizon and the weeks before will be filled with frantic preparation. Thankfully I then have a break of around two months before getting back into it.

We then fall smack bang into christmas parties, end of year going ons and preparation for fragola to welcome themselves into this world. In admist all of this my parents are coming across for a few weeks to help with the whole gaining a second addition to the family.

So, busy busy busy. But fun, fun, fun. Dante has recently expressed an interest in cooking. He loves playing at his little kitchen wearing his apron and making cups of "tea or coffee". With the brief glimpse of sunshine last weekend we also were able to get out and play in the garden together. We tried to teach him the fun that is Grip Ball, except it's not so much fun when you are an adult, or if you are under 5. But any chance for Dante to play with his daddy he will be there. Joe has been teaching him how to kick the "footy ball" which is basically any ball (Joe is hoping that he will stick with the soccer ball!) and Joe informs me that he is showing promise and is "good on both his legs". Right.



Dante, perhaps the reason you can't catch the ball is becuase your eyes are shut??





The boys playing in the backyard - Look we finally have green grass!!


Does this make me Whistler's mother?


Taking my order "White, no sugar thanks Dant"


He's now ready to take your order - what will it be??

Saturday, October 17

This blogger has been blogging

Yes, another break in transmission has occured - albeit unintended. It has been very busy around the canberra household with lots going on. But I have been blogging, just not on my own blog. I was offered the prestigious opportunity to guest blog over at my pal's blog, Caveat Calcei. This awesome chick is not only a lovely, nice lawyer (they do exist!) that has motivated me with my current uni study, she also is a mum and awesome twitterer! Check out her blog and leave a comment.

For those after the mandatory Dante, shot - this is him demanding a photo to be taken (and yes, we are aware it is well and truly time to go back to the barber!) :


Sunday, October 11

Teddy Bear's Picnic

Well we finally had some lovely weather today and just in time for the Teddy Bear's Picnic. It was a fun day at the park (put on by the ACT Govt) with lots of exciting things to see and do. Today the theme was "Return to Space" to celebrate the international year of Astronomy. This meant that Dante HAD to attend. Any chance to see some rockets and astronauts!

We had a lovely time, we ate lots of food, played on the playground and we even got to dance to the funky band playing. Dante brought Fusion and Dimitri along for the fun times and we even met up with his two best mates and their parents.

We didn't make it to the Teddy Bear Parade as it was way past nap time and boys just weren't interested. A pity because so many people stopped us to comment or play with Fusion, and Dimitri was totally dressed for the occassion:


Dante kissing Dimitri the "astrobear" while getting ready for the picnic



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Dante and his mate Luka "tackling" and "cuddling" often mean the same thing with these two boys




Getting their groove on - the boys dancing to the music


Oliver and his mum Alex came also and joined in the fun times!


A bit too tired to walk back to the car, it's much better to get a horsey ride from daddy

Friday, September 18

A week in film

I have been writing so many blog posts in my head but when I sit at the computer they all mysteriously dissapear and run off to play with those fairies and leprachauns that also occassionally haunt my mind.

I have replaced the batteries in the camera and i have started taking some photos again, but have not been really happy with my work this week. I don't know if the flu side effects, the weather, the plain simple fact that i am finding parenting a "terrible (but adorable) two" very trying at the moment, or just the pregnancy but motivation and committment to anything has been really hard to come by. That's not to say to I am cranky, or depressed- I am actually feeling really good - I just don't feel like doing anything!

So, until I get myself and my house sorted out I bring you a week in pictures - just for your viewing pleasure!


My beloved Zuk - the Suzuki - We are getting his windows fixed today. After a wild storm around four years ago I walked to the car from work to find all the windows on the driver's side smashed. This happened to a few hundred cars all over Canberra and as a result the price of window replacement skyrocketed (and no, i didn't have insurance, and yes, I know how foolish that was - now!). Anyway, long story short; We left the car as is while we went on holidays and the battery died, and the wheels went flat - when we got around to doing somethhing with it, the rego had also run out - meaning fixing this car was going to cost us $$$. It's been in a coma since then but we are slowly beginning it's ressurection today - we are all excited! (Especially Dante who has only just found out that not only does Grandad own a TRUCK! but so does his Mama!)


We got a special package from Aunty Monica this week - Dante scored an apron with matching chef hat and gloves. Dante has obviously seen my work in the kitchen and thought it might be more OHS practical if he wore his hard hat and googles while cooking instead - Thanks Mon!


A masterpiece that went wrong. I am cooking again but still struggle with raw meat - Joe won a meat platter last week and after using most of it on a neighbourhood BBQ, I thought i would use some bits of beef skirt to make an authentic Chilli Con Carne. Turns out it wasn't beef skirt but lamb. Joe and Dante enjoyed it (Dante loved having CAKE! for dinner - polenta corn cake) but i couldn't get past the lamb flavour knowing it should have been beef.


In my true procrastination style, I have decided to start my second quilt. By a strange force I walked out with some very feminine pinks and yellows. Not sure if I am tempting fate but this quilt is to practice my applique and some of the best applique are things like flowers and butterflies - so I couldn't help but pick all the "pretty colours". Should make a good present if we don't have a girl right?


This is me on my way out last night. There have been so few photos of me (I am usually behind the lens and Joes skills as a photography are best left undescribed) but I think it was the first time in my pregnancy that I was wearing make up, not wearing jeans but a SKIRT! and I had even tried to use a hair curler (which wasn't very successful).


So there you go - A week in pictures. If your week was in pictures - what would your highlight be?

Monday, September 7

Fragola - 24 Weeks


Just realised I forgot to tell you we had an ultrasound last week - All is going well, Fragola is still unknown in sex to us (we don't want to know) and by all accounts is happy and healthy and on track to being born 25 December.
We took the Dant along with us for the visit and he just loved seeing "the baby in the water" He waved and the baby waved back and also opened and closed it's mouth like it was talking to us - Awesome!
The lady who screened us printed off half a dozen shots for us and one for Dante - he is still walng around with it showing everyone the baby that is in mama's tummy!

Fathers Day, a Spring Clean & The Zuk

For our first weekend back we decided we were going to relax and enjoy it. Joe won a meat tray at work so we decided to organise a BBQ for Sunday. We spent Saturday morning at Swimming lessons - They had a blow up whale for the kids to ride on and Dante was beyond excited that we finally got to see "A whale!" even if it was in Canberra and not Ballina!

Afterwards we headed to Bunnings and lost ourseleves there for an hour - we walked out with some down lights that needed replacing and some seedlings.

Saturday afternoon I became bored and convinced Joe that the house URGENTLY NEEDED REARRANGING - Joe tends to accept what I want to do because it is often the only time I volunteer to actually clean the place up! We moved the living room and play rooms around to make more space. This result looked so good I was determined to tackle the bedrooms on Sunday. Joe said no due to our BBQ.

Saturday night we ordered my favourite Indian takeaway and Dante gulped down the Daal and rice but only if it had "yogi" on it (Raita). After a big day of moving furniture and cleaning I feel asleep exhausted. We also got a phone call from our friends saying that they couldn't make the BBQ due to other committments - the meat tray went directly into the freezer and the party was rescheduled for the following weekend.

Sunday morning arrived and it was Father's Day! I had promised to buy Joe a nice shirt for dad's day but he wanted to pick it out. Dante and I had made a card which he got when he woke up. We went out shopping and returned with a shirt for Joe and (shock horror!) Nothing for me and dante - I think the shopping centre broke down and cried it was such a major event to walk out with nothing for either of us!

The next few hours were spent with me pottering in the bedroom while joe planted some tomato, zucchini, basil, strawberries and a raspberry tree - can't wait to enjoy the fruits of the crop! He came in to get a drink to find I had moved Dantes bedroom as much as possible (excluding the heavy furniture) into our spare room. He then assisted with the heavy stuff and I spent the the aftrnoon and this morning putting both rooms back together in its place.

This means our house is halfway spring-cleaned. I tidied the kitchen last week but it still has some rearranging of contents that i want down and then that just leaves us with the bathroom and laundry - Joe has gallantly taken on board the cleaning of the laundry so I am hoping in the next two weeks the house should be completely cleaned and ready for a trip to Ikea (I have been nagging Joe and I am hoping on his next trip to sydney we might come along for the ride!)

So that brings us up to date. Nothing much more exciting happenening apart from my old faithful Zuk (the Suzuki) is being awoken from its Coma to once again grace the roads of Canberra - A few years ago we had a massive wind storm in Canberra which lead to the windows along the driver's side being smashed in completely. This happened all over Canberra so at the time the price to fix windows increased. We decided to wait until we returned from our Christmas vacation. Over that time the battery went flat and I forgot to renew rego. It has been sitting in our garage since and the tyres are now flat. So it needs a lot of work and a few $$ put it's way to bring it back to life.

Dante saw it for the first time yesterday and asked if it was also Grandad's truck (he has a Discovery), I told him it was my truck but that it was broken and we needed to get the man over to fix it.

This morning he asked me "where's my man?" I said "what man" "The man to fix truck" I had to explain he wasn't coming until later this week and boy, was Dante upset about that! I am afraid I might be hearing more about this truck from my toddler than I really would like to - at least his nagging will motivate us to get it back on the road sooner!

End Note" Sorry - ran out of batteries last day of holidays and keep forgetting to restock - will be bringing some more picture bliss to this blog once I purchase those AA's!

The Rest of the Holiday

Well despite my best intentions to keep the holiday posts up to date as much as possible, it didn't happen. I think we were having too good a time to even think about technology, even beloved twitter didn't get hardly any usage from me at all. A sign of a great holiday I am told!

So what did we do? What didn't we do! In our 10 days we managed to see dolphins frolicking in the water (more than once!) play on the beach (I was the only one brave enough for a mini-swim!) or as Dante called it "the sandpit". We spent a day at Dreamworld, two days in brisbane catching up with my sister and family as well as meeting a friend off the net (it sounds dodgy but was awesome and she is lovely - Hi Ang!) at a great water/park. We fine dined it for my sister's birthday, and followed up the next night with take away mexican - mmmm if only I could have had a mojito to complete the meal!

We also took Dad's boat out for it's maiden voyage in the river, Dante was super excited about it and it is still the one thing he keeps talking about. Joe became addicted to playing the Wii and we are in the process of obtaining one so the whole family can "get fit" and "have fun".

I spent a lovely afternoon with my mum going out for lunch at the Ti-Tree plantation and then followed it up sobbing to the movie My Sisters Keeper. My sister told me that when I got to Brisbane she would take me to another movie which was Blessed - again more sobbing. And I think I could even blame it on the pregnancy hormones given all the other people leaving the cinema with red blotchy eyes.

Now I know I am leaving out some of the best stuff that happened, like Dad making a lovely curry for dinner one night and just having close family there, to the picnic we held for Clairies b'day and Dante pulling out all of Grandma's parsley and dropping it down on the carpark - so many memories collected in such a short time. Here are some photos but I have posted plenty more on my facebook page and have probably (most definately) doubled up:

Dante loved the sand, surf and closeness of family around him


"water splashed me!" he tells us when we ask him about Grandad's boat


Grandma and Dante searching for pelicans (and whales)


Daddy and Dante playing in the sand



The dolphins out near the breakwater at Ballina